
Talk Sex with Annette
Talk Sex with Annette
Where desire meets disruption—and pleasure becomes power.
Hosted by sex and intimacy coach Annette Benedetti, Talk Sex with Annette is the go-to podcast for bold, unfiltered conversations at the intersection of sexuality, identity, and empowerment.
From kink to connection, self-love to sexual healing, Annette dives into the topics most people are too afraid to touch—with expert guests, raw storytelling, and a feminist lens that challenges shame and reclaims pleasure.
Think smart, sexy, and radically real: this is the cultural conversation around sex that’s long overdue.
Episodes
312 episodes
Yes, You Can Spank Her Like That—Here’s How to Make It Hot (Not Awkward)
Let’s talk about one of the most craved beginner kinks—spanking—and why most people are doing it completely wrong.In this episode, I break down the art and psychology of erotic spanking: how to build anticipation, ...
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15:52

How to Come Out Polyamorous Without Wrecking Your Life
Licensed clinical social worker and poly coach Emily Lambert Robins joins me for a no‑fluff guide on coming out as polyamorous—gracefully. We unpack the most common slip‑ups, why it can feel scarier than coming out LGBTQ+, and the essential con...
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45:57

How to Fuck From The Bottom And Still Dominate Him
We’ve been taught that power is all about being on top. But I’m here to show you why missionary—yes, missionary—is a secret dom move when you know how to work it. This episode is all about owning the position we were told to just lie there in. ...
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17:53

What If Gender Isn’t Binary—And Never Was?
Think gender is just “man” or “woman”—and anything else is made up? Then this conversation is for you.Because understanding gender-expansive identities isn’t about being “woke” or politically correct—it’s about being human
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58:38

How to Ride Like a Goddess: Cowgirl Moves That Blow His Mind
You’ve been doing cowgirl all wrong—and no, it’s not your fault.Most people are never taught how to ride in a way that actually feels good, builds orgasmic rhythm, and keeps your partner completely wrecked beneath you. That ends...
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17:04

Women Dating Women Isn’t Easier—It’s Just Different (And Still Hot as Hell)
You thought dating women would be easier? Think again.This Pride Month, I’m pulling back the sheets on what it really looks like when women date women. Spoiler alert: it’s not just soft touches, flannel, and U-Hauls. There’s bi-...
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49:00

How to Sit on a Face Like You Mean It
This Pride Month, we’re celebrating one of the most iconic, empowering, and downright delicious acts: face sitting. Whether you call it queening, throne work, or just your favorite seat in the house—this episode is your step-by-step guide to do...
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14:51

The Mom Who F*cks: Reclaiming Your Sex Life After Baby
Can you be a mom and a sexual being? Our culture loves moms—as long as they’re selfless, sleepless, and silent about their desire. But what happens when a mother wants to reclaim her seductress energy?In...
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51:37

The Sex Position For Her Orgasm (Most Men Skip)
Most men go straight for missionary, or cowgirl—and completely miss the one position that practically hands her an orgasm on a silver platter.In this episode, I’m walking you through the best sex position you’re probably not using—and ex...
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What Really Happens at Luxury Sex Parties—Where Women Run the Show
You’ve heard the whispers. Maybe even fantasized about it. But what actually happens behind closed doors at high-end sex parties?In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we...
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54:24

What To Do After Sex To Make Her Crave You Even More
You think she wants you because of how good you were during sex?Think again.What you do after sex is what sets you apart—and makes her crave you all over again.In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’...
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Fisting, Safety, & Surrender: The Sex She Has To Trust You To Have
You’ve heard the jokes. Seen it in porn. Maybe even whispered about it with a friend. But fisting—when done right—isn’t about shock. It’s about trust, surrender, and full-body pleasure that goes way deeper than you think.In this...
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How To Fist a Woman For Deep, Safe, Next-Level Pleasure
This is your step-by-step guide to vaginal fisting done right—for real connection, full-body pleasure, and the kind of deep, slow sex that leaves her saying “holy fck.”*In this episode, I walk you through: 💦 What...
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19:58

The Truth About Girth: What Women Really Want
Is it true that girth matters more than length? Or is it all in your head… and maybe hers too? In this episode of Talk Sex with Annette, we’re pulling back the sheets on one of the most common questions men obsess over: ...
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How to Handle Her Body Like a Man Who Knows What He’s Doing
Turn touch into trust. Grip into pleasure. And make her feel so safe, she’ll come undone in your hands.Most men think they know how to touch a woman—but if you’ve ever wondered why she isn’t melting into your hands, moaning befo...
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13:35

Soaking, Jump Humping, and Creative Virginity Loopholes
Is it sex if you’re just soaking? What about butt stuff? Or dry humping in your underwear?In this quick follow-up to our viral episode on virginity, I sit down with Dr. Sue Milstein to unpack the wild “workarounds” people use to <...
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5 Tongue Techniques That’ll Blow Her Mind (Literally)
Ever wonder why your tongue isn't getting the reaction you want down there? In this episode, I'm showing you the real oral sex techniques that make women lose their minds—with step-by-step breakdowns that go way beyond the bas...
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14:32

Virginity is a Scam! What They Didn't Teach You In Sex Ed
What if I told you virginity is a scam—and you’ve been sold a lie that’s screwing with your pleasure, your confidence, and maybe even your relationships? In this no-BS conversation with certified sexologist Dr. Susan Milstein, we unpack t...
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1:04:19

How to F*ck Slower — and Leave Them Craving You for Days
Most people think "slow sex" means sweet, romantic, or boring. Wrong. When you master slow sex the right way — the savage, dominant, craving-inducing way — you don't just turn someone on, you burn yourself into their memory. In this episo...
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Lactation & Pregnancy Kinks: Why They Turn You On (Therapist Explains)
What if the thing that turns you on the most… is also the thing you’ve been too afraid to admit?This episode pulls back the curtain on one of the fastest-growing—and most misunderstood—kinks: pregnancy and lactation play. And no, it’s
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Kinks for the Normal Guy: 5 Moves That’ll Make You a Legend in Bed
You don’t have to be “kinky” to completely blow her mind—you just need a little curiosity.In this episode, I’m breaking down 5 beginner-friendly kinks that are: ✅ Easy to try ✅ Expert-approved ✅ And absolutely guaranteed t...
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17:33

Dating Over 40 Isn't Dead—It's Just Getting Hotter (Here's Why)
If you think dating over 40 is just ghosting, gym bros, and endless swiping with no spark—think again. In this episode, I’m joined by Andrea McGinty, the matchmaking powerhouse who’s set up over 33,000 dates and 4,200 marriages. She’s bee...
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1:07:28

5 Surprising Kinks Women Crave (Guys Take Notes!)
Most men have no idea just how kinky their partner might secretly be. We've all heard the tired myths—“women aren’t as into sex,” or “guys are the freaky ones.” But here’s the truth: women are just as kinky, just as curious, and ...
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16:37

Think She’s Not Into Sex? You’re Wrong—Here’s the Truth About Women’s Libido
Think women don’t want sex as much as men? Think again. In this episode, I sit down with renowned somatic sex therapist Susan Morgan Taylor to bust one of the most damaging myths about women’s sexuality: that we have a “naturally low lib...
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